Relationships, in all their shapes
Support for couples, polycules, and anyone trying to love (and be loved) with more honesty.
Relationships are where our oldest wounded patterns show up, often at the worst possible moment. The same argument on repeat. A distance neither of you can name. A relationship structure that no longer fits the people in it.
I work with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships, including ethical non-monogamy and other non-traditional structures. You don’t have to explain or defend how your relationship is shaped. We start from what’s actually true for you.
You might be noticing:
Communication that turns into the same fight
Disconnection, resentment, or feeling unseen
Navigating opening a relationship, or new partners and dynamics
Jealousy, insecurity, or attachment fears
Family-of-origin patterns showing up in your relationships
Mixed-faith or post-faith relationships
Together we can work on:
Breaking out of the same old fights
Building communication skills for difficult conversations
Navigating jealousy, boundaries, and agreements
Opening a relationship, or changing its shape
Understanding and healing the patterns you bring from your family
Building or rebuilding trust and closeness
We’ll get curious about the patterns underneath the conflict, so you can respond to each other instead of reacting.