Relationships, in all their shapes
Relationships are where our oldest patterns tend to show up, often at the worst possible moment. The same argument on repeat. A distance neither of you can name. A relationship structure that no longer fits the people in it.
Support for couples, polycules, and anyone trying to love (and be loved) with more honesty.
I work with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships, including ethical non-monogamy and other non-traditional structures. You don’t have to explain or defend how your relationship is shaped. We start from what’s actually true for you.
You might be noticing:
Communication that turns into the same fight
Disconnection, resentment, or feeling unseen
Navigating opening a relationship, or new partners and dynamics
Jealousy, insecurity, or attachment fears
Family-of-origin patterns showing up in your relationships
Mixed-faith or post-faith relationships
How I work:
Attachment theory
Emotionally focused therapy
Parts work
Direct, grounded, and collaborative
LGBTQ+ and kink-affirming
We’ll get curious about the patterns underneath the conflict, so you can respond to each other instead of reacting.